The Adaptive Edge

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Pele

12 October 2025

3m 15s

S1 E5. When Inclusion Feels Like Exposure

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When Inclusion Feels Like Exposure

Respect starts with knowing the room, not just leading it. In this episode, I share the price I paid when an attempt at inclusion left someone feeling belittled and ashamed. The lesson: intent isn’t enough — impact depends on cultural awareness and reading the room.

Anchor Line:

Respect starts with knowing the room, not just leading it.

Leadership Move:

  • Check intent vs. impact — Inclusion can backfire if you don’t understand the context.
  • Read the room — Some thrive when called out publicly; others feel shamed.
  • Adapt your approach — Tune your facilitation style to the people, not just the agenda.

Quote:

“Leadership isn’t about having the floor, it’s about tuning into the people on it.”

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